Here are ten things people with high self-esteem do differently in their relationships: 1.Confident women don’t analyze if he likes them – they assume he does.
From my personal experiences, and my years spent writing about relationships, I’ve learned that poor self-esteem is the number one cause of unhealthy relationships, as well as the top relationship killer.
People with low self-esteem don’t trust their judgment, don’t trust their gut instincts, and are afraid of being wrong.
As a result, they either live their lives in a constant state of anxiety, or they look to others to guide them along the right path.
People with high self-esteem don’t constantly question their actions and feel conflicted about the right thing to say or do.
They act on how they feel and are comfortable being their true, authentic selves.
She may know on a conscious level that it simply wasn’t a match, but deep down she holds on to the destructive belief that she was the problem…and that she is unlovable and the guys she wants will never want her back. Having strong boundaries means you prioritize your needs and your emotions and do not assume responsibility for someone else’s needs and emotions.